I asked a friend and colleague whom I am a consultant for her business, ‘Is my help helping you?’ She tells me that I had given her great ideas, that she hadn’t time to implement them. She took someone else’s advice on an issue I had advised against, and she lost hundreds. She goes on to tell me her great plans for her business. She wants her business to help charities she cares about and the fact that her business hasn`t taken off frustrates her. “But I  ...